Are you mentally and emotionally prepared to get back into the dating scene again but new to online dating?
Because there’s a surplus of women to men and of course you want to be at the top of the board you are going to want to present yourself as a very attractive woman.
Maybe you need to tone up, eat more healthy foods, use makeup and change your hair style, change your dress style etc. No matter what your age if you feel good about yourself you will be a winner By the way the same goes for men.
You might ask why should I have to do all this. Well, the whole idea is not just about dating its also about building a relationship. About how you relate to yourself. Do you like yourself because if you like yourself then it follows that others will like you simply because you are likeable. Forget you are over 50. Go and have some fun.
Online dating is a fantastic way to test the waters to see if this is for you.
At this stage its impersonal and you are in charge. After all, what you are doing is finding out a few basic facts about a guy before setting up a meeting – This is not a date. It’s got to be better than a casual encounter in a bar with a few drinks under your belt to give you dutch courage.
But before you even go online sit down and make a written list of all your needs. Writing down things will help you become much more clear about what you want out of a relationship.
Then write down all your expectations of what you would want in a relationship – a companion or friend maybe even leading to something permanent like a long term relationship or marriage.
Make some notes about what your values are.
- Your strengths and weaknesses your likes and dislikes:
- What you would want in a potential mate:
- The type of man you would like to meet:
- Your interests such as art, dining, dancing and so on.
But please be honest with yourself otherwise it could backfire on you further down the track.
The whole idea is to prepare a profile that’s about you in a chatty informal way, Keep it simple and have some fun writing it up.
When you come to actually write up your bio and profile online it will be a piece of cake because you will be clear about what you want then there is no reason why you won’t attract what you truly want. Check out the Law of Attraction.
A few facts:
- The female ratio increases with age
- The male female ratio is approx 60% women to 40% men
- Women general live longer than men.
Hope these few pointers help you to find what you want.